How to Feel Confident Wearing Colour (When You Normally Stick to Black)
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How to Feel Confident Wearing Colour (When You Normally Stick to Black)

If you usually wear black because it feels safe, you’re not alone. Black is easy, familiar, and reliable. But if you’ve ever wanted to wear colour and felt unsure where to start, this guide is for you.

I’m breaking down how to feel confident wearing colour, especially if black has always been your comfort zone, with simple, practical tips you can actually apply.

Why Wearing Colour Feels Scary (And Why It Doesn’t Have to Be)

For many women, colour feels risky. It draws attention. It feels bold. It feels like something you need confidence for.

But confidence doesn’t come before the outfit, it comes from wearing it.

Once you understand how to introduce colour in a way that feels natural, confidence follows.

My Top Tips to Feel Confident Wearing Colour

1. Start Small With Colour (You Don’t Have to Go All In)

If you normally stick to black outfits, ease into colour rather than forcing it.

Try:

You don’t need to abandon black. Just build around it.

 

2. Choose Colours That Suit Your Skin Tone

Not every colour feels good on every person - and that’s normal.

If bright colours feel intimidating, try:

When a colour brightens your skin and makes you look refreshed, confidence becomes effortless.



3. Stick to Shapes You Already Love

Confidence comes from fit before colour.

If you already know a dress style, top, or silhouette that makes you feel good:

  • Choose that same shape in a colour
  • Keep everything else simple

When the cut feels familiar, the colour won’t feel overwhelming. Make the leap to colour easy!

4. Don’t Wait to Feel Confident First

This is important.

You don’t wear colour because you’re confident.

You become confident because you wore colour.

Confidence builds through action, not overthinking.

Put the outfit on. Leave the house. Don’t worry about what people think. Fun fact - they aren't thinking anything at all - it’s all in you and your overthinking babe!

 

5. Colour Makes You Memorable (In the Best Way)

Black blends in. Colour stands out.

Wearing colour:

  • Draws positive attention
  • Looks intentional
  • Signals self belief

Standing out isn’t a bad thing, it’s powerful. You deserve to take up space in this world!

 

6. Style Colour With Intention

If you’re wearing colour, own it.

That means:

  • No fidgeting
  • No explaining yourself
  • No apologising for your outfit

When you wear colour like it’s normal, everyone else believes it too.

 

7. The Goal Isn’t to Stop Wearing Black

Black will always have a place. I still wear it.

The goal is to give yourself more options - more expression, more fun, more confidence.

Colour isn’t about changing who you are.

It’s about letting yourself be seen.

 

How to Start Wearing Colour Today

If you want a simple starting point:

  • Choose one colour you’re drawn to
  • Wear it in a familiar silhouette
  • Pair it with black or denim
  • Keep accessories minimal

That’s it. Confidence unlocked.

Final Thought

If black has been your safety blanket, there’s nothing wrong with that. But you don’t need to hide to feel stylish.

You’re allowed to wear colour.

You’re allowed to stand out.

And you’re allowed to feel confident doing it.

Even if you start with just a pop.

Tara

Xx

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